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spring
- the bridal party spa experience
summer - what is ayurveda
("eye-your-vay-duh")
fall - spa-ing for
your pet
winter - spa-ing for the
expectant mother
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the
bridal party spa experience.
It's
your special day, you're getting married, and you
want to look drop dead gorgeous. What bride doesn't?
So you, or you maid of honor, sign up for a day
at the spa. What better way to relax, get pampered,
and feel great before you say "I do"!
But,
"here comes the bride!" can be a nightmare
for spa's. Having worked in one myself for several
years, I can tell you that not every bridal party's
day at the spa goes smoothly. In fact, some are
down right bumpy!
So
I would like to give you some tips and pointers
on how to work with your spa so that your day will
be the perfect one you were hoping for.
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Call your spa in advance, and find out (if you
don't already know) what the general atmosphere
of the place is. If you are expected to be quiet,
and turn off your cell phones, you must consider
if this will be the spa for you. Think about
the group of women who will be attending. If
you don't know many of them, ask somebody who
does. It's really important to help the group
focus on the state of mind they need to be in
BEFORE entering the spa. Going to a rowdy bar
and getting hammered right before you are signed
up for a very quiet spa day, probably isn't
the way to go.
- If
you plan on taking pictures of your day, call
in advance and make sure the spa doesn't have
any policies against this. And don't take pictures
in the treatment rooms. Especially if your bridal
party is sharing the room with other spa guests.
A bright flash going off in a darkened, quiet
room can be quite disturbing.
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Bringing food and wine? Great! But be sure the
spa doesn't have any policies against this.
Some spas offer food, and therefore do not allow
outside food, and some won't allow alcohol on
the premises at all. Please do NOT bring enough
for everyone to get completely inebriated. Just
enough for everyone to enjoy one glass of wine.
If they want more than that, take everyone out
for drink AFTER your spa day. (Doing this before
going to the spa can create its own bucket of
worms.)
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When a large group goes to a spa, it is important
to organize ahead of time. Know EXACTLY how
many people are going. Let people know, that
they cannot add themselves in at the last minute,
and if they do not show up, it would be considerate
to send someone in their place. The spa will
be counting on a specific number of people,
and it can be a HUGE inconvenience for everyone
involved (including you) if that number changes.
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Have one person get the spa menu ahead of time,
and have everyone choose their service. Make
a list, and then have ONE person call and schedule
everything. There is too much room for error
and mix ups if everyone calls for their own
appointment.
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Most importantly, organized who will cover the
bill. If everyone is paying for themselves,
collect money ahead of time, and don't forget
to include the tip in the amount you will collect.
Your day will go much smoother if the financial
aspect is planned and taken care of.
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When tipping, remember to bring cash. You spa
can tell you the proper procedure for tipping.
(Every spa is different). But be sure you have
tipped ALL of your technicians. Leaving one
tip for all the techs to split is not kosher,
unless that is how the spa operates.
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The average tip is 15-20% of the cost of service.
So if you all had a $100 services, you need
to tip $15 - $20 to EACH technician. This can
add up, which is why you want to plan for this
ahead of time so nobody gets stuck having to
cover this part of the bill.
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And last but not least, have fun, relax and
enjoy the day. The spa will recognize that this
is a special time for you. If you are kind to
them, they will usually bend over backwards
to make your time in their spa as wonderful
as possible.
I
hope this list is helpful, and your bridal party
is wonderful and relaxing. With a little organization,
and planning ahead, your day should go off splendidly!
And congratulations!
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what
is ayurveda? ("eye-your-vay-duh")
Simply
put, it's the Eastern Indian version of Chinese
medicine. It's been around for 5000 years, and is
still practiced today. We have had practitioners
here in the United States for approximately the
last 25 years. So it's still rather new to us, but
it's catching on quick!
Why
is this form of healing becoming all the rage?
Ayurveda is a holistic form of healing. As modern
medicine continues to fall short in the eyes of
many westerners, holistic medicine is seeing a tremendous
upsurge in popularity. This means that many different
types of holistic healing are finally surfacing.
Ayurveda, is at the top of that list.
How
does it work?
Ayurveda is one of the Vedic sciences. The science
that deals with imbalance in the human body. Translated,
it means the "science of life".
Ayurveda
believes that the universe is made up of the elements.
Earth, air, fire, and water. These elements are
not viewed as the physical elements, but rather
metaphors for the energies which these elements
represent.
These
elements, are then divided into three categories,
called Doshas.
The Doshas are called Kapha, Pitta, and Vata. It
is these categorical energies that are believed
to cause the ailments of the human body. In balance,
one experiences perfect health and vitality. Out
of balance, the human being experiences all manors
of illnesses and disease.
Ayurvedic
practitioners work to restore balance between the
Doshas through diet, herbal remedies, lifestyle
changes and cleansing of the body by a method called
Panchakarma. (See our article on panchakarma for
further explanation)
Ayurveda
may well be one of the most effective holistic healing
modalities since the emergence of Chinese medicine
in America. Its methods may seem a bit strange to
the western mind, but the effectiveness of its practices
are undeniable.
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spa-ing
for your pet
With
pet clothing becoming all the rage lately, it's
not a far jump to a spa treatment, ala canine of
course. After all, our four-legged friends need
to de-stress to. And what better way then to give
them a day at the pet spa! And don't fret, our feline
friends can enjoy this luxury as well!
Yes,
you read that right. The pet spa. The latest and
greatest in the world of pets. Have your pooch pampered
with body scrubs, manicures, pedicures, and yes,
even aromatherapy treatments.
Want
to know where to find such a place? Well, they may
be hard to locate, but we found just such a place
in Frisco Texas. The name of the canine and feline
friendly retreat is, A Place for Pets - Resort and
Spa. You can visit their web site at www.aplaceforpets.us.
Or
try The Spa Dog Package at The Spa Dog (www.thespadog.com)
in southern california, where your pooch will receive
a heated hydrotherapy bath, nail trimming, ear washing,
organic shampoo and conditioner, a complete blow
dry, aromatherapy spritz, bow or bandana, and of
course, playtime with a treat! These lovely packages
start at just $90.00. A steal for a day at the spa!
The
Spa Dog owner, Steve Ogden says, "I believe
with the proper approach Dogs can have a wonderful
spa experience. With dogs it's about trust, you
gain there trust and they will relax."
Is
this a bit excessive? Perhaps, but it just goes
to show you that we will stop at nothing for our
furry friends.
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spa-ing for the expectant
mother
Ok,
so this months' topic evolved more out of my own
personal interest, than anything else. Being an
expectant mother myself, I thought it would be a
worthwhile investigation to find out what's healthy
for the mom-to-be, and what isn't, when visiting
the spa.
The
first rule is: Tell everyone you are pregnant! Tell
the person who books the appointment, and tell your
technician. Any spa employee worth their paycheck
knows that there are certain accommodations for
women who are pregnant. You want to be sure that
they will do these things for you.
For
a mom-to-be in her first trimester, you should pretty
much avoid the spa all together. There are many
pressure points that can be massaged during a service
that can actually trigger a miscarriage. There are
also many herbs that can do the same. Also, if you're
lucky enough to have a husband who massages your
hands, legs, and/or feet, give him a break from
this duty during the first three months. These areas
are particularly full of pressure points that can
affect your entire body.
Keep
in mind, that if you do go into the spa for a manicure
or pedicure, your technician would be wise to avoid
any massage altogether. Just have them do the basic
nail care to make your fingers and toes look good.
Once
you hit your second trimester (week 14 to be safe),
things become considerably safer in the pampering
department. Pregnancy massage is a wonderful way
to relieve stress and worry. I highly recommend
it. However, when booking this appointment, inquire
about the experience and training of the massage
therapist. It's wonderful if they have studied all
over the world, but if they haven't studied pregnancy
massage specifically, you may want to find another
technician. Pregnancy massage is a very specific
type of massage. You want somebody who knows what
they are doing. Also, avoid any deep tissue work.
This will not benefit you at this time.
If
you are one of those women who experiences morning
sickness beyond the first trimester, I would fist
like to say that my prayers are with you, and I
hope it will be over soon! I would also recommend
that you inform your technician about this condition.
You may want to ask that the door be left open just
a bit for ventilation, or that certain products
with a strong fragrance be avoided.
As
you approach the end, (yes, at some point your body
will be yours again!) massage in any type of service
can be a gift from the heavens above. Your body
aches, sleep is limited, and the restless waiting
has begun.
In
this phase, a stronger massage stroke is fine. However,
do avoid deep tissue massage. Some women like to
have a stronger massage if they have past their
due date. A deeper massage can sometimes stimulate
and encourage labor. But discuss that with your
doctor first to make sure its ok. Again, any technician
worth their beauty school diploma will ask to see
a doctors note in this case.
And
last, but not least, here are some general rules
covering the entire pregnancy.
If
your spa offers spas, saunas or hot baths, avoid
them at all costs. While the heat may feel good
temporarily, you are likely to overheat very quickly,
and the higher temperatures are not good for baby.
Avoid any spa services with technicians who are
not trained in the care of pregnant women. Remember,
it's ok to ask a million questions when you book
your appointment. The spa wants you to leave them
being happy AND healthy, and you will feel better
knowing you are in capable hands.
In regards to manicures/pedicures:
Avoid
a manicure or pedicure in a place that has a strong
acrylic smell. We all know what that smells like.
All those little nail shops reek of the stuff. While
these places may be cheaper than a spa, keep in
mind that you are not the only one inhaling the
acrylic that is in the air. Your baby is to. Best
to avoid these places until you are done breast
feeding, as these chemicals can also be given to
your baby through your breast milk.
Having
been a manicurist myself, I can tell you that if
you are smelling it, it's because the product is
hanging in the air. There are many studies on technicians
who never wore masks while doing these types of
nail services. The results are not pretty. You body
cannot process these chemicals. The acrylic builds
up in their lungs, and sits there, causing lung
cancer, and who knows what else.
If
you absolutely MUST have your nail extensions done
during your pregnancy, at the very least, take a
mask to wear during the service. Also, try to find
a shop that is well ventilated. But again, it's
best to avoid these places all together.
One
last note on manicures:
A lot of technicians have small fans at their tables.
Ask that this be turned on while the technician
is painting your nails. Position the fan so that
the fumes from the polish are blowing away from
you.
Some herbs to avoid during pregnancy - barberry
root bark, cascara sagrada, feverfew, juniper berries,
mugwort, pennyroyal, pokeroot, rue, senna, southernwood,
tansy, thuja and wormwood. All of those herbs can
increase a risk for miscarriage. (Please remember
this is NOT a complete list. Consult your doctor
for more information.)
I
hope I haven't scared any expectant mothers off
of going to the spa. It can be a very healing and
nurturing experience if it's done right. Just go
in, knowing what you need, and communicate those
ideas clearly. You will find that most spas are
very happy to accommodate you.
Enjoy!
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